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4 signs your man needs to be spoken to

22 September 2015, 18:19 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - How do you know when you need to talk to your man? Here are 4 signs you do.

Before sex

Common mistake that most of us women make is assume that once we have sex with the man we want, he will be obligated to us. He will have to be in a relationship with is. Common mistake is that we will also ignore this piece of advice and trust our false instincts. We have sex then tell the man I think it is time we have the talk, ‘where is this going?’ that is not how it works, if you want something more, be upfront from the beginning, best is when you are yet to be intimate. It is better to get burnt before than after.

When you see him ‘talking’ to another woman and you want him

You have been going on dates, flirting and sending each other nasty texts even maybe had sex but he is yet to claim you. You hope he does but he has yet to do so. But he feels like he is free to talk to other women and still call you for weekend hanging out, well, it is time to have the talk. He needs to know that you are not talking to other men and he should extend the same courtesy especially since he is getting boyfriend privileges.

Before commencing on wife duties

As above, we tend to get in way too deep and too fast when a man is involved. What do most of us hope for? If he sees how many awesome qualities we have as a potential girlfriend, he will like us and want to be with us. Do not give out free services because you are hoping to convince someone that you are the one. Give out girlfriend duties-chores and what not after the guy has labeled you as his woman. Let him publicly claim you before you privately claim him. Understood?

When you are starting to develop feelings for them, tell them

Learn to take responsibility of yourself; don’t blame your feelings and actions on someone else. Do not say that someone was stringing you along when you were too afraid to not chase them away. That is what we do, right? You like someone, start having feelings for them but keep quiet because we do not want them to say no to us or run scared. You would rather have them run away by the way. You have been on dates, talked late nights, and bought each other gifts. What have you been doing? Leading up to the talk, so tell them and let them know where you have begun to stand.

First date euphoria is not feelings, that is not the time to have the talk.

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