4 signs your man needs to be spoken to
22 September 2015, 18:19
Nairobi - How do you know when you need to talk to your man? Here are 4 signs you do.
Common mistake that most of us women make is assume that
once we have sex with the man we want, he will be obligated to us. He will have
to be in a relationship with is. Common mistake is that we will also ignore
this piece of advice and trust our false instincts. We have sex then tell the
man I think it is time we have the talk, ‘where is this going?’ that is not how
it works, if you want something more, be upfront from the beginning, best is
when you are yet to be intimate. It is better to get burnt before than after.
When you see him ‘talking’
to another woman and you want him
You have been going on dates, flirting and sending each
other nasty texts even maybe had sex but he is yet to claim you. You hope he
does but he has yet to do so. But he feels like he is free to talk to other
women and still call you for weekend hanging out, well, it is time to have the
talk. He needs to know that you are not talking to other men and he should
extend the same courtesy especially since he is getting boyfriend privileges.
Before commencing on wife duties
As above, we tend to get in way too deep and too fast when a
man is involved. What do most of us hope for? If he sees how many awesome
qualities we have as a potential girlfriend, he will like us and want to be
with us. Do not give out free services because you are hoping to convince
someone that you are the one. Give out girlfriend duties-chores and what not
after the guy has labeled you as his woman. Let him publicly claim you before
you privately claim him. Understood?
When you are starting to develop feelings for them, tell
Learn to take responsibility of yourself; don’t blame your
feelings and actions on someone else. Do not say that someone was stringing you
along when you were too afraid to not chase them away. That is what we do,
right? You like someone, start having feelings for them but keep quiet because
we do not want them to say no to us or run scared. You would rather have them
run away by the way. You have been on dates, talked late nights, and bought
each other gifts. What have you been doing? Leading up to the talk, so tell
them and let them know where you have begun to stand.
First date euphoria is not feelings, that is not the time to
have the talk.
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