4 signs you need to break up
04 January 2016, 16:50
Nairobi - Its time to break up. Is it? Here's signs it is.
You two are stagnant
Most couples think that since they have dated for many years
and they have reached this point the only logical thing to do is just get
married and get on with it. At times that is not the answer especially if the
feelings are no longer there. You set
yourself up for failure and dissatisfaction when you choose to settle into
something that no longer makes you happy or no longer makes you want to
improve. You will both become average in your marriage and that is what leads
to looking for that rush outside the marriage when you have already settled
down. Then cheating and eventually hurting someone’s feelings.
You prefer being with
other people more than being with them
If you have to keep making excuses, finding something else
to do or not looking forward to see them, then why are you prolonging the
inevitable? You will end up causing more heartbreak when you keep up the
illusion that you are with them all the way while you actually aren't.
You no longer trust
Trust comes about in more ways other than lies alone. It
comes in the force of abuse, expecting them to do something and they always
give you the run around; you get the picture. If it is no longer there, then
let them go because it will always creep up no matter what you do later on.
You know you want to
see other people
There is no reason to cheat or run off, play with someone
else and when they disappoint you, you come back. If you want to see other
people, then just let the other person know and end it. If you are with
someone, you just want to be with them even in the worst of times. If you want
to see other people, it means even the good times do not matter anymore. So
even if you go back, you will still not like the relationship anymore.
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