4 signs you need to break up
16 December 2015, 13:29
Nairobi - Do you need to break up with your partner? Here are signs you probably do.
You badmouth your partner
And that is because you actually don’t really care if they
do find out because you do it to parties that they also interact with. You point out their faults and what they
recently did wrong or have been doing wrong.
You don’t want to do
it but you force it
Anything; from going on dates to doing anything with them or
for them. You just don’t want to do it but you do it so that the blame when it
eventually ends does not fall totally on your shoulders. But you just can’t
wait for that time to come because you are over and done with it.
You do things
purposely to push them over the edge to break up with you
These days you really do not want to tow the line with them
because you are hoping for them to say the words. If it aggravates them, angers
them or you know it irritates them; you will do it so that they say it is the
last straw for them. For example; coming home late, spending more time outside
with other people than with them, not helping out around the house and not
putting things in their right order or place.
Phrases like, ‘if this happens again, I am leaving’; ‘If you
do not want me around, just say so’ But you are the one that actually does not
want to be around. You are giving indirect hints of your intentions.
Or maybe it is you who is being played but you are yet to
grasp what is really happening, so you ignore what is in your face. If your
partner does the above, they are urging for an end to the relationship while
you are desperately holding on.
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