4 signs you gave him TOO much TOO soon
05 November 2015, 18:44
Nairobi - At one point or the other any woman no matter how good she floats in the skies has been let down by some man who taught her a very good lesson. That lesson has laid down a foundation which she uses to make her decisions.
When are you giving too much too soon?
You are both at a flat line
There is practically no conversation between the two of you. You have gone on all the interesting dates you could think of. You have virtually been in everything he has had and invited you to. You sent all the nude pictures you could send to make things interesting in your messages. You have all had that ‘what you will do’ when you meet conversation until there is nothing more you can add. It gets to a point when one of you sends the first ‘hi’ text; none of you have nothing to continue the conversation with.
When a man has more control of your time than you actually do
Attention; women feed off of it like a pack of bees on honey. When a man pays attention, a woman drops everything else that might have been going for her and focuses on him. A couple of dates, a couple of hundred texts and calls later; when everything goes back to routine, she is still staring at the phone and wondering when he will call. You are waiting on him even when you should be doing something else, you are waiting on him.
He tells you he is just no longer interested
He actually told you that and you are still not sure what happened yet. He has not even pressed you for sex; he just called it quits after spending all his money on all those dates. You have to stop making up for things that burnt themselves out. If he did not show, you do not have to be the one that does the follow up. That is why you need a roster; if this one disappoints you just let him go. He figures himself out then he can come present his case. Sending thousands of texts asking what happened lets a man know, no matter how much fooling around he does, you will still be there.
Even while getting to know someone, you do not have to go to everything they invite you to
You stop doing what you normally do and now rely on them for entertainment. That is too much power you are giving someone. You can go to some but have time for your own things too. That is why the word decline exists.
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