4 signs you are wasting time on the wrong man
03 March 2016, 12:55
Nairobi - Are you wasting time on the wrong man? Here are signs you actually are.
Someone asked: ‘Why
are you single?’
A certain woman
answered: ‘The man I want is currently in a relationship so I am waiting for
her to die so that I can swoop in.’
In my dark sense of humor, I obviously found this very funny
until I also realized it was also tragic both for her and the woman she is
waiting to ruin a relationship for. Women do not accept defeat easily and when
it comes to the man that she sees as being very good husband, boyfriend,
father, partner and spouse material, she will move heaven and earth to have him.
So this lady is not going out and looking for another man or
trying to date or just looking at someone else other than the one that is
taken. But she is waiting, waiting for something to go wrong in his life for
her to step in and take over.
Why are you wasting your time for a man that is clearly taken?
He will come and tell you of all the rough patches. You will
offer the shoulder to cry on in the hopes that he will eventually come back to
re-ignite it into something more. While you are busy babysitting another
woman’s man, he will still go home to her, eat her food and be her man. You
will be left in your house, full of hope and no one to show for it. Then you
will say how he gave you false hopes. Did he ever tell you to wait for him or
did he ever ask you not to see other people? I am sure your answer is going to
be something like, ‘Then what does he mean by coming around and talking to me
about his deep feelings?’
News flash: Men also need to talk and they will not do it
with their fellow men. So either you accept that you are that good friend or
that good listener; because as long as he goes back to her, you are nothing
more than that.
Waiting on the man that has not figured himself out yet
Men, just like women, also hit a patch where they need to
figure how life is handling them. Now the best man will tell you that that is
what he is going through and he is not ready for anything. He does not want to
give you false hope. But do women listen? Nope, she ill stick around hoping
that after all is said and done and she was there to pick him up, offer the
lift, the lending hand and what not, he will remember. A man will always be
ready for the woman he wants. You just were not it, take that and roll safely
away from him. Being friends is not a bad thing but if you feel it will ruin
your next relationship, let him be!
Let me wait for him to ruin his relationship, so that I can take over
There is always the woman that thinks she will be the game
changer for a particular man. She knows he is bad. He is bad news all around
and he is not good at all. But maybe his pocket is speaking and his style is
smooth. He is flamboyant in a way that turns her heart. So she will ignore all
the warning signs and be that friend that all girlfriends hate because she
thinks she is better than them. If he is creating havoc in her life, prepare
yourself as well for the same. That is all I can tell you.
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