4 signs you are ready for a relationship
11 February 2016, 19:24
Nairobi - Are you ready to be in a relationship?
You need to have
learnt to be empathetic
You need to know how to place yourself in someone else’s
shoes or in their place in order to understand them. If you do not know how to
understand someone else’s position in any situation that comes between the two
of you then you should not be in a relationship. Don’t even tell anyone you
have ever been in one because they will feel pity for the person who was ever
You display less
Selfishness for what you want and desire is not a bad thing
by the way. You need to be able to say, I need some me time, I need to pamper
myself, I need to go here on my own; that is a way of keeping the relationship
On the other hand, you also need to be able to accommodate
another person’s wants and needs when you are with them. Yours come first yes
but also consider that at times it will always not be your way. You also do it
gracefully not with a harsh dispute or angry disagreement but just letting some
Some of your bad
habits are gone
Maybe it was heavy drinking or heavy spending or heavy
partying. With a relationship comes a bit of being responsible and reliable for
the other person. It is no longer about you alone but the two of you together.
Be responsible, if not ready ten don’t be in a relationship because oops moments happen.
Letting go of some
ego and being able to admit when you are wrong
Otherwise the two of you will always be petty. You have to
be able to be a bigger person.
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