4 signs you are important to your man
16 December 2015, 23:58
Nairobi - Are you important to your man? Here's how to know.
You are always the
first to hear anything important that happens to him
Someone once said to me that one of the drawbacks of being
single is that when you get really good news it would feel really nice if you
had someone of your own other than family and friends to share it with and
celebrate with. That rang as very true and if a man really likes you he will
make you a priority with such a gesture. You will always be the first to know
and he will always be looking forward to celebrate his achievements with you.
If you have to pull it out of him then you really are not that important… to
He calls you and asks
to spend time with you
You do not have to be the one to push for dates and you did
not have to always wonder. He calls and when he is free, he wishes to spend it
with you. Not that he will begrudge you if you choose to spend it with other
people but he makes you a priority for his time. You do not have to force it
with calling and asking.
You get a vote when it
comes to his decisions
This is really important because when you are important and
relevant to someone they do not do things without asking or consulting with
you; especially the major decisions. It is also not just about him asking
because someone can ask and not really consider it. But if he really wants you
in his life, he will consider what you want and what your preferences are. For
example; major job changes, moving houses or finances not what you want to eat.
He makes what is
important to you work even if he is not in a place to
This is still consideration; it may be something to do with
your job, your lifestyle or what you would like him to be a part of like a
family event. It may annoy him but because it is important to you, he will make
it work for you.
If ‘your’ man does not display any of the above among other
things, then maybe, he might just not be yours. You might just have to stop the
chasing and clutching of straws.
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