4 signs to know if a woman is ready for marriage
16 December 2014, 18:58
Nairobi - Some women rush to want to get married yet it is
because they want it and maybe the partner they want does not want to marry them. You
may wonder why you are being overlooked, but most of the time a lot of what
you do in public says much more about your character before someone even talks to
you. How do you know if you are marriage material, or if the woman you
are with is marriage material?
Your financial situation is in bad order
If you have a full
time job and you get a constant paycheck at the end of every month but still
have to get a loan from your friend then you are a long way from being
responsible. If you cannot handle your own financial situation then how will
you handle that of your household as well as your children’s funds? The thing
about being provided for by the man went out of the window with the
feminists. Nothing says responsible like
a woman who knows how to manage her own money and still have savings from her
You are in love with partying and alcohol
There is nothing wrong with wanting to have fun time to time
but if it is something that you live for, then you are definitely not ready for
marriage. Does not matter if you are 30 and above, that does not signify
maturity but just aging. Maturity comes from being able to handle yourself and
not having to join your girlfriends every weekend just because. A twenty year
old can be more mature than the forty year old.
Getting drunk and not remembering where you are may lead you
to lose the baby on one of those days, definitely not marriage material.
Emotional instability and immaturity
Impulsiveness, being impolite ad rude are not good qualities
for anyone long term. Throwing tantrums just because you did not get your way
is just a sign that marriage will squash your spirits because it involves
dealing with a lot of people. And that needs patience, determination and
tolerance. People like people that make their life easier rather than harder.
Unappreciative and discourteous
If she does not
appreciate the little you do for her now, the bigger you do later will not make
much difference because she will not change.
People who are courteous and thankful for even the smallest gestures go
out of their way to make their partner feel like they are in a pedestal. What
man does not want their woman to put them on a pedestal?
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