4 signs she does not like you
13 November 2015, 16:58
Nairobi - I do not know why men complain when a lady they have been
trying to ‘cuff’ only call them when she needs to eat and at the end of the
night; no commitments like, ‘see you next weekend’ or even just a peck on the cheek.
I have never had the privilege of having someone to string a
long for free dinners and drinks. I think it is because I am very
straightforward. I see no reason why I should string you along if I am not
interested in such a relationship with you yet that is what you want; simply
because I have seen how such a situation can turn from 100-o really quick for
the lady in question. Men have muscle, I do not; if it came to a physical
situation, I would lose.
Anyway, most of the time a lady lays out her cards upfront
but a brother will think that, if I just press hard enough, she will relent. It
never happens to most because she just never saw you like that.
She never goes or
wants any one on one dates with you
If you keep inviting her out and she has to bring her friends
a long, it is just as simple as her having wanted a meal, something to do or
entertainment. Yes, a woman can bring a long a friend on the first date for the
friend to feel you out or so that things are not so intense and personal on the
first date. But if she keeps doing it, she is just not into you.
She is on a date with
someone new and you always know it
She does not hide the fact that she is still trying to find
the guy that suits her. Women can have back –ups but if she really cares about
you and wanting to give you a chance, she will make sure you are not aware of
what she is up to. Just like that; if she does not make it a secret to you, you
might just even be in the friend zone.
She keeps cancelling
on plans with you
When you eventually get through to her via a phone call, the
best you get at the end of the line is a grunt that you also know was
non-committal. But did you pay attention? No, because you are thinking at least
I got through. D-day and she says something came up, not once, twice but all
the time. She is not the one for you. Just look for another.
She explicitly told
you she can just be friends or has a boyfriend
So you think if I keep hanging around and she has problems
with the boyfriend she will come to me. It worked for Kanye, who says it works
for everyone. Just move on and if a woman tells you over and over again that
you can just be friends, that is all you
are going to be. Women need that sexual attraction and emotion to actually want
a physical relationship with you. Otherwise we close our eyes and pretend. So
which is it for you?
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