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4 signs she does not like you

13 November 2015, 16:58 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - I do not know why men complain when a lady they have been trying to ‘cuff’ only call them when she needs to eat and at the end of the night; no commitments like, ‘see you next weekend’ or even just a peck on the cheek.

I have never had the privilege of having someone to string a long for free dinners and drinks. I think it is because I am very straightforward. I see no reason why I should string you along if I am not interested in such a relationship with you yet that is what you want; simply because I have seen how such a situation can turn from 100-o really quick for the lady in question. Men have muscle, I do not; if it came to a physical situation, I would lose.

Anyway, most of the time a lady lays out her cards upfront but a brother will think that, if I just press hard enough, she will relent. It never happens to most because she just never saw you like that.

She never goes or wants any one on one dates with you

If you keep inviting her out and she has to bring her friends a long, it is just as simple as her having wanted a meal, something to do or entertainment. Yes, a woman can bring a long a friend on the first date for the friend to feel you out or so that things are not so intense and personal on the first date. But if she keeps doing it, she is just not into you.

She is on a date with someone new and you always know it

She does not hide the fact that she is still trying to find the guy that suits her. Women can have back –ups but if she really cares about you and wanting to give you a chance, she will make sure you are not aware of what she is up to. Just like that; if she does not make it a secret to you, you might just even be in the friend zone.

She keeps cancelling on plans with you

When you eventually get through to her via a phone call, the best you get at the end of the line is a grunt that you also know was non-committal. But did you pay attention? No, because you are thinking at least I got through. D-day and she says something came up, not once, twice but all the time. She is not the one for you. Just look for another.

She explicitly told you she can just be friends or has a boyfriend

So you think if I keep hanging around and she has problems with the boyfriend she will come to me. It worked for Kanye, who says it works for everyone. Just move on and if a woman tells you over and over again that you can just be friends,  that is all you are going to be. Women need that sexual attraction and emotion to actually want a physical relationship with you. Otherwise we close our eyes and pretend. So which is it for you?



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