4 signs of very bad sex
15 January 2015, 13:09
Nairobi - Passionate sex, rough sex, romantic sex, kinky sex, sex
takes a variety of forms and we would all like to think that we have
experienced all of it and we were the best someone ever had.
It also depends on an individual because there are those
individuals who plainly prefer romantic sex where there are the scented candles
and dinner for two in an intimate setting before anything actually happens.
Then those who just like to be emotionally disconnected from the whole thing
because rough and kinky sex can be fun if both parties are agreeable to it.
Agreeable, because some people like surprising their partner with very weird
stuff in the middle of the whole session.
The reason some people end up having boring sex lives is
because they fall into the latter category; using the element of surprise on
their partner rather than communicating beforehand on what they would like. For
Chewing on someone’s nipples...
Biting and being excessively rough can be detrimental to
your sex life. I do not know where some people got the idea that biting on
women’s lady parts is arousing. It is not, it is actually painful unless a
woman tells you to do it because it turns her on; No biting.
There is a reason why normal sex is done from the front
rather than the backdoor. Surprising your partner this way may get you slapped
really hard because the backdoor was never meant to take things in but out. You
may end up causing severe tearing and breaking of tissue, thus terrible
injuries if you do not discuss and prepare her for it.
Diving in there with no preliminaries is a turn off. She
might like rough sex, and not be into romantic sex but you have to lead up to
it because there is a lot that is involved in making her excited.
Also wanting to change positions after every few seconds, it
just kills enjoyment and becomes a rehearsal with no finish line.
There is nothing wrong with watching porn or using it to
experiment. What is wrong is when someone starts talking like some porn star he
admires and tries to spice it up by yelling, screaming or pulling moves just
like he saw in some scene.
Pushing someone’s head down....
If someone wants to give you a blowjob let them do it or you
can ask. The worst is when a guy grabs your head or neck and tries to forcefully
push you down. You will get bitten, and none too gently either.
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