4 signs he loves himself more than he does you
01 January 2016, 15:56
Nairobi -He loves himself more than he does you. How do you know your partner is not in it for the long run?
They can never take
the blame because of course you are the only responsible for any faults
But they will be quick to claim responsibility for any good
thing that ever happens. If it is bad, it is your fault but if it is good, of
course it is only through their actions. Your partner is an expert at
manipulation and that is how they can easily convince you even if it was not
your fault that it was. You will never notice it in the beginning because you
are convinced that they are good people that you would really like to be with them.
The moment you start noticing this manipulation late on in the relationship, it
will make you question them and why you wasted your time in that situation.
They relish the idea
of making you feel inferior to them by exaggerating their accomplishments
They might be over-accomplished or just more so than you but
you are really in the wrong relationship if your partner does not choose to
uplift you from what they have gained but likes to rub it in your face. At
times you even notice the over-exaggeration but you dare not point it out
because the comeback will probably be along these lines, ‘…but what have you
Toxicity does not have to be abuse alone because you can
read through the lies if you pay attention when someone likes the idea of you
and not being with you. Learn that and save yourself emotional distress.
They come first; you
come after or never come at all
They will always be dismissive of what you want or what you
need and the delivery system of their words is what is preventing you from
voicing them again. They will sound insulting like you are being needy yet have
no idea of getting it yourself-that is manipulation. They will sound derogatory
and degrading to a point that you will question whether you are asking too
much-manipulation again. They will scoff or laugh it off like they have better
things to do than standing around listening you whine. But when they bark, they
expect you to jump. Toxic relationship; that is how they look like.
Entitlement and high
expectations of you
For women, it is called the princess attitude. For men you
will best see it this way. If he earns more he will make sure you never forget
it. He will always mention how other people want them out there but they
dropped a couple of notches for you-be humble and appreciative. Treat him like
a king because he was combing through the streets and picked a servant instead
of a fellow royalty. That is the headache you get from dating arrogance,
cockiness and a narcissist. Same applies for the women as well.
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