4 signs he is not planning to marry you
05 January 2016, 12:50
Nairobi - If you are ready to settle down, you should be able to tell
if the man you are spending time with is thinking along the same lane as you are. That way you know if you should move on.
You do not have to be a side-anything; you can actually hold
the title and be the only one but he might just still not settle down
with you when the ‘forever’ word is mentioned.
You have to force to
meet any of his family members
‘Can we meet this weekend?’ ‘No, I am not available.’’ Where
are you going?’ ‘To see my dad.’ ‘Can I come?’…silence ‘ahhh, but to do what? I
am going to talk business with dad.’ ‘I can visit with your mum while you two
talk.’ Enough said, you already know how
it goes because you are a participant.
A man will avoid introducing any woman he already knows is
not going to be his wife. Chances are even his family already knows you are not
the one and he is still looking. How embarrassing especially if you keep
forcing those interactions.
He is never concerned
whenever you are distressed about something
Any man who cares about his significant other will always
try to patch things up even though it was her fault and never his. On the other
hand, one who does not care if you are sad, moody, stressed and can easily walk
away until you figure your emotional self out is someone you should question if
you want to spend the rest of your life with. What underlying message is being
communicated here is he does not care if you walk away at the end of the day.
He does not involve you
in any of his plans
If you have to force such type of conversations; ‘How was
work today?’, ‘Does it look like you are going to get the promotion?’, or he
gets the promotion and he does not even bother to celebrate with you, does not
tell you if he wants to move to another neighborhood but just moves. First, people like celebrating accomplishment
with people they care and like. They go out of their way to celebrate anything
with them; if you have to force it, be worried. He really does not care about what you want or would like. Any
boyfriend changing jobs or houses will ask a legit girlfriend what she thinks
about it or the area.
He is in your life but
not in your life
A man who wants to make a statement where his legit
girlfriend is concerned will want to be in her business. He wants to take her
where she wants to go. He wants to know who these friends are. He wants to know
if she ate and what she ate and if she still is hungry. He wants to invite
himself to an event she is going to. He just wants to know. If you have to
force such scenarios, beg and plead for someone to take you every time. There
is that one time; we can allow he might not feel like it. But when it is every
time and there has to be a sulk or a bribe involved the communication here is,
‘I could care less if some other man sweeps you away at that event. You
were not my wife anyway.’ He can basically easily move on.
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