4 signs he is a player
18 July 2016, 20:17
Nairobi - Is he a player? Here are 4 signs he is.
never at your convenience
You know the way someone gets in touch with
you after they stopped being busy at their convenience? You know it but it is
just that as a woman you like to make excuses, ‘He really is busy because he
told me he was doing, blah, blah, blah…’
When something is at someone else’s
convenience but never yours and you feel like a bother; it is not the time for
you to do the chase because they are playing hard to get. They are just playing
with you because you have never been that serious for them. When someone takes
you seriously, you will know. They make the effort.
can go for ages with no communication
Again, convenience. You will think, when
they are available they will get back to me. And when they do, you will think,
at least they made time and remembered, at least I am not wasting my time. You
actually are wasting your time. Forced conversations are never the way to
something fulfilling. They are a waste of your time because he is keeping you
around until whoever he wants ever, if ever, pays attention.
plans are off-kilter
You are just never sure and you know it but
you are always hopeful every time he makes them. But in the back of your mind
you know something will come up, but you still hope. That is why even after the
first and second and third disappointment, you will still agree next time
because next time is when something will materialize-hopefully!
know damn well this guy has not stopped his life for you
But you have stopped yours for him and he
knows it, he tells you to get out more but you don’t because you are buying
into the ‘show loyalty’ thing. Don’t be loyal to nothing; move on, it will be
easier to accept whatever happens after if after all, they disappoint. But if
you stick around, doing nothing; all the more regret.
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