4 signs he is a fake
11 April 2016, 20:38
Nairobi - Is he a fake? Here is a sign he is.
Talks down to you
There is always that one that thinks women are inferior
beings. Someone will not come right out and tell you but you can see from the
way he talks to you or considers your opinion. It has reached that point you
even doubt yourself before making a comment especially in front of his kin. He
has this habit of embarrassing you by laughing you off or asking you to go to
the kitchen to do ‘what women do’. It will remain the same even after wed lock;
don’t think it gets better when you are now the wife. So you play meek and mild
to get the ring then spend the whole marriage being miserable because he just
did not turn out the way you wanted. It is your fault because you chose to
There is physical abuse, and emotional abuse. If you have a
boyfriend that always gets abusive whenever there is an issue or raises his
fist because he does not appreciate your interfering in his business; you have
the wrong one. Get out while you can because someone does not change if you
prove yourself to them or get pregnant or any of the ideas your man has
Comparing you to that one ex
Your relationship will always be a triangle as long as
someone goes and talks to this ex every time the two of you have a problem. He
also lets you know he is doing it because he knows he is hurting your feelings.
Or clandestine phone calls where he just leaves to go talk to them in another
room. You need to let that one go because he is still in that relationship. You
might be that rebound before they become official again.
You are not a priority
If something is important to someone, they will always find
time no matter how hard the situation. If you are always the last thing on this
man’s mind, it will be the same even with a life together. That is how to be in
a relationship or marriage but still be lonely.
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