4 signs a man is serious about you
23 March 2016, 18:50
Nairobi - Women can misinterpret a lot of things and one of them is when
she is told that a man who is yours will act like a husband toward you. That is
not a lie, that is actually true but the thing is what most women consider
husbandly duties. For most Kenyan women it ends up being the monetary things
and when that is all said and done and she is back to square one, she is
A man that is serious
about you will not make you question his loyalty to you
If you are still doing that run around game for a man that
is claiming he is ready to settle down, you are doing it for the wrong man. If
you have to keep worrying about a man when he is not with you because you still
don’t trust him and he has given you reason not to; you are being loyal to the
wrong man. I am not saying that a man will completely quit his fooling when he
finally finds you (fooling around: flirting and what not) but when he does he
will acknowledge the fact that he has to respect you and your relationship. He
will give you that respect.
He will not make you
second guess his intentions
You have been in a relationship but you are still not sure
of what you are to a man. Maybe it is time you realize that you might just be
that- nothing! A man, who likes and wants you in his life, will make sure you
know it. A man who is not sure of his intentions, needs time so step away and
be ready for a negative answer. Just give the man the space he needs to know
whether it is you he wants or he just does not and accept that.
Does not play games
with you and your time
Does not keep diverting your calls because they are
inconveniencing, sending you to voicemail until it is convenient for him or
making rash plans on his schedule. He is just not considerate of you or your
effort. Just know that a husband respects a wife’s efforts and if you are
forcing it now, how much of that will you be able to bear with after you become
an item with a man?
He is proud to be
‘Mtu anakuficha sio wako na wewe sio wake.’ Letting a man claim in you in private but he
is publicly single. There are so many ways this is wrong but it will always be
up to a woman to decide whether she has had enough from a man for her to walk
away. If he wants to get someone prettier, someone better looking, someone
more, someone up to his level-you will never be enough!
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