4 sex killers
16 September 2015, 16:01
Nairobi - Sex is awesome but can easily die out. Here are four reasons it can die.
You are worried about
what your partner will think
And you are right to be worried because at times we are just
with mismatched people. They hit all the right spots in everything else but
when it comes to sex you can see there are just places they are not going to
go. If you sext him something and he a. diverts the conversation b. acts like
he does not understand or c. tells you to explain because he does not
understand. He is a prude and if you want to keep the relationship do not go
there with him. He is not going to think you googled it but who taught you that. That is the honest truth with
no psychology just humans being human.
Pretending you like
You do not want to hurt your partner’s feelings, maybe you
do not want to seem like a ‘slut’ or maybe you are in the 5th year
and you do not want to drop a bombshell that you never really liked it. So you
stay suffering with someone who keeps biting on your nipples because they think
it’s sexy but it’s painful. Just tell
them and end the suffering but bring something new to the table. You do not
take away candy and leave a kids hand empty, you replace it with a new toy.
Not being open with
Be open with your partner from the beginning. Let them know
what you need so that they can try fulfill that need. It will prevent you from
cheating or re-enacting fantasies with other people in your head. Worst
scenario is they might get disgusted but at least now they know.
You just do not know
Then you blame your partner for it. Women are encouraged to
masturbate not because we want to be freaks but it’s a way of easing
frustration while single and a way for you to know your body. That way you do
not depend on someone to figure it out for you. They cannot. What they do with
someone else will not necessarily work for you. So know and understand your own
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