4 rules to dating a player
26 October 2015, 14:59
Nairobi - Dating a player is easy, or not.
Do not think that you will be the one to change him
The main problem that all women make when it comes to dating
and relationships is to think that she will be the game changer for him. She
thinks that if he just gets a taste of her he will know she is the one for him.
Not! She thinks that if she does this or that he will see that no woman has
ever gone to such lengths to keep him. Also not true! Men always get love, in
different forms, different ways and from different quarters. You will not be
the first. A player is a player. A player is a womanizer; always think negative
results never positive. If he decides to change for you that will be a surprise
bonus but do not go in expecting it.
Don’t get it in your head to make plans with him
Plans: family, wedding, children or marriage. Do not make
plans. Just like stated above, you will not be the one to make him dream of
happily ever after. Have a fling but do not make plans.
Think short term, never long term
If you are dating a player, be wise enough not to think it
will go anywhere. You think women play games? Well it is because the smart ones
realize that he is not in it for the long haul. She is just being smart enough
not to invest in someone that has clearly shown he is not for her. If they are going out, she goes but the
following morning continues living and not waiting for a call or text back. If
she is seeing other people, it is because she knows she is looking for someone
that is just for her and not everybody else’s.
Think of his interest like a baby who has a new toy; fickle
So he told you no one has ever made him feel like the way
you do. No one that he can remember in the last few months. Players can be
dedicated by the way; for as long as you hold their attention but the foot is
always out the door for the next pretty looking little thing that dazzles his
eyes and nether regions.
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