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4 rules to dating a player

26 October 2015, 14:59 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - Dating a player is easy, or not.

Do not think that you will be the one to change him

The main problem that all women make when it comes to dating and relationships is to think that she will be the game changer for him. She thinks that if he just gets a taste of her he will know she is the one for him. Not! She thinks that if she does this or that he will see that no woman has ever gone to such lengths to keep him. Also not true! Men always get love, in different forms, different ways and from different quarters. You will not be the first. A player is a player. A player is a womanizer; always think negative results never positive. If he decides to change for you that will be a surprise bonus but do not go in expecting it.

Don’t get it in your head to make plans with him

Plans: family, wedding, children or marriage. Do not make plans. Just like stated above, you will not be the one to make him dream of happily ever after. Have a fling but do not make plans.

Think short term, never long term

If you are dating a player, be wise enough not to think it will go anywhere. You think women play games? Well it is because the smart ones realize that he is not in it for the long haul. She is just being smart enough not to invest in someone that has clearly shown he is not for her.  If they are going out, she goes but the following morning continues living and not waiting for a call or text back. If she is seeing other people, it is because she knows she is looking for someone that is just for her and not everybody else’s.

Think of his interest like a baby who has a new toy; fickle

So he told you no one has ever made him feel like the way you do. No one that he can remember in the last few months. Players can be dedicated by the way; for as long as you hold their attention but the foot is always out the door for the next pretty looking little thing that dazzles his eyes and nether regions.

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