4 reasons you should check your man's phone
14 August 2015, 18:02
Nairobi - There is snooping. Then there is stalking. Both are
ill-advised. Stalking is weird though because I do not understand how you can
just spend a day following someone. I have a short attention span, I would lose
them after the first hour. In traffic too.
If your man finds out, you will be in trouble. Just trouble.
It is not like he is going to kill you or take you to prison for it. He will
shout, maybe stomp around and sulk for a couple of days or weeks but he will
get over it.
Rule No. 1: And the only rule for that matter. Do not get
Rule No. 2: Do not get caught.
Rule No. 3: If you do not have a brain do not do it. Let me
explain. You snoop around, you will find something. You will need a very clever
and sneaky brain to know how to address him on the issue without tipping him
off that you were in his phone, wallet, drawers …office!
At least now you know
A lot of Kenyan men like having variety on their menu. It is
important to ensure that you are the only specialty he keeps ordering and he is
not trying to initiate his palate into different cuisines.
I would like to think I would trust my man to know I am the
best thing he ever had but it is not true. If you are beautiful the next woman
or the woman before is ten times more. What you can do, another woman can
either do it better or not do it at all. There always is something. You need powers not to ever be curious. Just
because you read a text or see a call does not mean you know something. There
is a delete function. That is why I said you need a brain. You go to settings!
You prevent getting married to someone else’s husband,
boyfriend or a criminal.
You sleep better at
The only reason single people might not sleep well is
because they are not having sex. When you are in a relationship and your
partner is out of town, you wonder. And wonder and wonder some more. Especially
if you know they have a large appetite for some things. That is why crazy women
check receipts. What type of suite it was. Was is a double, single or
presidential? Call the desk and fake accents. You just want to know where they
are, who they are with and what is their position in the company.
Knowledge is power
Even bad news is good news for you. Nothing worse than being
made a fool of. It is even better when they know that you know and you are yet
to do something about it. Nothing better than to make someone sweat for their
own misdemeanors. It is now their turn to have sleepless nights because they do
not know what side you will strike from.
If there is something, you will better off having time to
plan before it gets out. Most men do not think of the aftermath. They get lost
in the moment. You will know what to do. Do you want to save the family? Scare
the other woman? Or just get a really good divorce settlement? You will know.
The earlier you know, the better to save yourself from a bad
scenario. Maybe he is married and wants to add you to a roster. Maybe he has a
girlfriend, right now they have a thing so he is testing other waters. Do not
be someone’s science lesson. Snooping ensures that you save yourself from all
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