4 reasons why casual relationships work best
27 June 2016, 18:19
Nairobi - The person you want to be in a relationship with is not
ready for a commitment. It annoys you but at least they were honest and upfront
about it. They could just as easily have strung you along until they got tired
and moved on but they did not.
You stick around because you are hoping to change their
mind. If someone lets you know their intentions, stick around accepting that
decision and not to change it to favor you. Nothing works like soap operas
where someone suddenly sees why they could have lived without you all this
You are not held
hostage by someone else’s feelings and emotions
When you are upfront with someone and you let them know from
the get go that you are not into anything serious, it is their responsibility
to make sure they keep it that way. It is never yours. A lot of people are
stuck in something that they do not want because they know how heavily invested
the other person is and they do not want to be the ones to break them.
You have a lot more
going on and you cannot handle anything serious
When they say relationships are hard work that is because
they actually are. If you are honest enough to admit you do not want to string
anyone along, you get one point for that. It is not that someone is fickle and
they do not know their own mind, they do that is why they have made that
decision. If they are focusing more on work and career and other things, they
probably might just not have the time for anything serious other than just
wanting someone around on an odd weekend for fun. Just fun!
You have not yet found
what you want
Everyone has an ideal that is why most women, even after
getting pregnant, the man wil not marry them but it is not because she is a bad
seed but just because she is not what he wants. It is that simple. That is why
you are told, safe sex or abstinence is important when dealing with someone you
are not sure of.
It is easier to move
Simply put; no strings attached.
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