4 reasons she is ignoring you
13 November 2015, 18:58
Nairobi - Why is she not seeing you?
You just turned out not to be what she wanted
Picture this; you see or you met once and had a conversation then eventually both decide let us try and do this. So you go for a date, one time, two times but at a certain point she no longer seems bothered. You are still expectant but a woman will not come up to you and tell you she does not feel like seeing you anymore. She will talk to you, laugh at something you say on a text-it is only a ‘lol’ these days but when you try and set something up, she just does not want to anymore. We do not like hurting a man’s ego and feelings so she just dodges around until you get the point.
She started seeing someone else that checks every box
Like I said, ego, we all know is very important to a man. So if she is seeing you, you go on a couple of dates but she is not feeling you, she will not tell you. She will just keep cancelling until you stop. She will not come and tell, you, ‘I found someone better than you!’
You can be off-putting
Narcissists, egocentrics, boastful and lacking in manners, not just being a gentleman but manners in general; this one does not need to be explained. Some men can go overboard when they are trying to impress someone they like (boastful and prideful) and some men are just the way they are (narcissists). You can just happen to be a load when it comes to going out with you. I do not want to be irritated but want to have fun, so you will most definitely not make a cut.
She is actually just busy
She just might be that busy and not making excuses. Busy with her work, busy with her career, busy with her life and making time for you is a process.
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