4 reasons people hate commitment
25 November 2015, 17:47
Nairobi - Some people hate commitment. This is why.
It is easier for them to move on
It is easier for them to let go of a situation that turned
out badly because they have a neutral mentality of the whole relationship
thing. They do not get too devastated because they know just like they found
this relationship; they will easily find another one.
They will not be easily hurt
People always run the risk of getting hurt as soon as they
allow their moods to be swayed by another person. Your expectations of them,
the promises you expect them to keep and how they treat you while you are with
them. But if you are one foot in and one foot out, it is a win-lose situation.
You have an easier time accepting things as they are and not allowing yourself
to be too emotional over every situation.
They are avoiding less disappointment by keeping low expectations
When you are not too deeply invested in something or someone
you basically have very low expectations of the outcome and what you will be
getting. You avoid disappointment by not having any expectations at all. It can
be so hard being in a relationship with this kind of person because until they
decide to actually take things seriously, you will always be planning things on
They are not willing to give more of themselves to something
that just might be fickle
In relationship sit is a give and take and mostly one
partner is usually giving more of themselves in expectation of the same in
kind. For this person they are trying to convey a message to you by doing less
and demanding for less. They do not want you to take the situation seriously because
you will be giving them baggage in the form of your feelings for them to take
care of. They d not want that. It is not that they do not know how to love,
they do but they are just not willing to get there with you or anyone yet.
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