4 reasons patience pays in new relationships
30 September 2015, 18:40
Nairobi - What is too fast? Getting married in the same year you met
your boo, having sex when you do not
want to but feel like you need to in order to keep someone, moving in before
you actually really know this person you love….just
You have no proper foundation for your relationship to ever grow
Explosive sex, late night calls and insistent are not the
equivalent of knowing someone. You know someone when you know you can trust
them and you only know that when they also give a piece of themselves to you.
Honest is not then telling you where they are but them showing you who they
really are and not that part they choose to show to everybody else.
You cannot grow with a person who does not understand you
You are not moving fast with someone who understands you
just from meeting you for one month. There are people who can date two years
but yet have no clue or idea about the other person. There will always be a tag
of war in such an association. There will never be room for you two to ever
grow because you are still trying to figure each other out and what the other
You will never be satisfied in such a slam dunk situation
A slam dunk- You have no idea when it happened or where it
came from but that ball just got scored on your court. That is the same type of
confusion you will exhibit the whole time you are in that relationship. It is
happening too fast, you know it but you do not have a safety net for it. You
end up getting hurt because one of you was either behind or ahead of the other.
You were never on equal footing.
You are not stable.
How it begun, is how it will be maintained and how it will
end. There is no time you will ever just be comfortable with that partner.
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