4 reasons men run away from women
23 December 2015, 19:51
Nairobi - Why is he running away from you? This is probably why.
You have symptoms of
clinginess and too much possessiveness
It is not always about following someone around, calling
them all the time or stalking them on social media. Your expectations while
talking to someone can say a lot about you. You are already planning for him
and how he will be in your life; like say what you cannot wait to do with him,
where you would like to go and such and such. The best time to display
spontaneity is while you are initially dating someone. Having a schedule for
them is telling them you are planning their life and time for them; no one
How did you express yourself to him because that is a
lasting impression for anyone especially to a man who does not want your
emotional baggage? Showing too much too soon and getting angry or showing
frustration because it is not reciprocated is an example of emotional
immaturity. Being able to communicate to a man how you feel and what you expect
from him calmly and with an open mind is a sign of emotional maturity. He might
not be there yet but he can be if you act right.
You are not so much
fun to be around
If simple things set you off like poor service or when he
steps on a toe by accident. You care not playful and look grim all the time
because that is what being an adult is about. You give him a questioning look
when he tries to include you in something and you would rather ‘do you’. Who
wants to date that? Who wants to even commit to it? No one! That is a life full
of grim decisions and grim recreational activities.
You ended up not being
what he wanted
This is usually the hardest for any woman to accept but if
you just learn to, it will make you happier. You cannot be for everyone, when
someone makes a choice that it is not you, you should be glad they did not
allow themselves to make you miserable.
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