4 reasons men lie to women
10 March 2016, 17:56
Nairobi - Why do men lie to women? Here are 4 reasons why.
Your expectations are
Obviously for some men when you tell him that that lady is
out of his league, then he takes it upon himself to look at it as a challenge.
Just to prove that he can and at times when that happens, he realizes that he
actually likes her. But now he cannot go back because he most probably told a
fib to gain her attention. So he maintains it so as not to end up losing her.
You are not as loyal
as you would like to think you are-as the woman in the relationship
While dating, any man will be checking his lady to see where
she stands in all matters relationship, marriage, where her loyalties lie-with
him or herself? Then from there, he will decide what to do. Does he want her
for forever after or he just wants a casual relationship? If he wants her for
forever and he attained her under false pretenses to match her standards; he
will continue with the lies. Because he knows the minute she finds out the
truth he might just be old news.
To cover up another
You know when you start something and right when you are in
the middle and it is back firing you start to ask yourself whether you should
start afresh or continue? That sort of thing; so instead of coming clean, it is
much easier to make up something new to cover up for the old one. It is much
simpler for your man that way. For example; ‘I dumped her…..but I did not know
that she was pregnant. I am finding out now just as you are.’ Then he will ask
you, ‘So what do WE do?’ And you
will wonder, ‘WE? Why is it we now
when I was never part of the initial discussion or relationship?’
It is easier than
dealing with some reactions
People do not react to any news the same way. Some are calm,
some are quiet, and some walk away and the last one-some go crazy. The crazy
ones are the ones people find easier to lie to that to deal with their
reactions. If she is overdramatic, throws things and shouts even from simple
matters. He will either lie through omission or just come up with a lie that
will suit her best.
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