4 reasons couples avoid divorce
22 September 2016, 16:36
Nairobi - Maybe you are wondering why your friend is
still with that sleaze of a husband or why your mate keeps that wife around
when he could do so much better.
Too many factors go into marriage for
couples other than the basic things most people concentrate on. People can
choose to be together even though they should be apart.
people do actually have principles
And values; when they said I do, they meant
it. They are willing to put up with something as long as the relationship makes
sense to them and not to you.
better to be in a bad situation with that person than with anybody else
Marriage can breed a rare form of trust and
friendship that was never even there before. If the marriage is done properly.
And at times when people see a really bad situation, they think maybe you would
be better off if you left them. What they do not get is that this person has
grown to be more than a friend but also a companion that you would not mind
growing old with as compared to being without them.
one wants to start looking
Getting in and out of relationships is
hard. You get to an age; you don’t want to waste your time by going on
meaningless date in the hopes of finding someone. You choose to be okay with
the situation because it is more peaceful than what is presented as an
alternative- the gory world of modern dating.
have invested too much of your time in it
Not just time but resources. Sometimes we
just call a spade a spade. When you think of all the resources you have put
into something, nothing else matters. You know the drama that comes with a
split. So you are just like, ‘I can get over this and live with this’ as
compared to that other circus.
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