4 MUST dating rules for young ladies
09 March 2016, 21:25
Nairobi - I was given advice; ‘Don’t rush for marriage until you are
well settled in when it comes to taking care of yourself and you are not
dependent on someone.’ Have a career, and then look into having a family. True
but also true is that do not wait until it is too late. Realistically speaking,
if you want family and children and the whole works you have to hit 30 when you
have that constant partner already.
Don’t wait until you
have hit 30 to start looking for someone serious
You will be lying to yourself if you are thinking that your
peers will now be ready as well. If they are they will be now looking for the
20-somethings. That is why as a lady in your 20-something; the minute you hit
25, don’t think the world is your oyster. Be done with all that Tomfoolery and
start considering the men that are around you. Be serious if what you want is
to eventually settle down and court with the ones that are like-minded. Let go
of the ones that ‘just want to have fun.’
They will not want to settle down with you because you will always be their
good time girl.
There is nothing wrong
with having a career, but find a balance
If your goal is to eventually have a family, you are going
to have to accept that there are times your work will have to take a backseat
to your personal life. No one will want to spend a lifetime with a workaholic
and that is the truth. There will always be the option of someone who can do
this-accept that and you will find that you are humble enough to be submissive
and sweet when called upon to be so.
The good husband
materials will rarely if ever have anything on your list
It will make you cry every time you remember that one that
was everything but did not earn enough neither was looking like he ever will by
the way. We talk about potential but most of the time most end up with the
average type of living. The best he will be able to do is at least be able to
provide which is good when you consider some people. Others might have it all
but they are happy being bachelors because they know that even when they are 40
or 50 they will still be able to bag the yungins.
That is what gets most women into traps. You wait around thinking that when he
is ready he will pick you because he sees you as his match but have you ever
seen how lovely perky breasts are? They will seal the deal for him. Don’t wait
around for a man enjoying bachelor hood, you will lose to the 20-year old
If you are not ready
to settle in your 20s you will be the reason you make a rush decisions in your
Most people are in bad marriages due to rush decisions. You
realized you had all the fun while everyone was settling down. You were a hot
cake and so you thought you will live forever.
I agree men are there but I will tell you, don’t be foolish when handed
a gift horse snap it before someone is onto it.
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