4 moments a woman really needs a man
06 October 2015, 13:22
Nairobi - When she really needs you, she does. Here are 4 scenarios.
When conceiving becomes a problem
Not all couples are lucky to ‘just’ get pregnant while
trying. Furthermore not all couples are strong enough to overcome the stress
that comes with that because of the blame game. You just catch your partner
staring at you and they give you the look of ‘what’s wrong with you that you do
not function as well as other people.’ Long ago even now women still get blamed
if they cannot get pregnant for their husband. The better husband or man is the
one that defends her from ‘hate speech’ from parents and siblings and people
who like having opinions. The better husband is the one that will not make her
feel any less but encourage her to take a break and get drunk with her. Then
they try again. At times the pressure is what ruins everything and not necessarily
Work, Business and Class related issues
When she does not get the promotion she was hoping to get.
When she had a breakthrough that was overlooked yet she had such high hopes.
When she brags about an appraisal that takes a turn for the worse, you do not
give her an ‘aha, I told you so’ look but continue supporting her.
Maybe your wife or woman was is doing her Masters or PhD
gets late, dinner is not ready and you do not have a house help. Do not take
her head off, her professor just did that. If you got home early maybe you
should just order take out and take the kids to bed. That is how you get
blowjobs and get your wife horny! That is the effort women like seeing.
When the marriage is not turning out as you both expected
It is not the time to say, ‘f**k it!’ If you see her trying
to make it work; then do your part and try to do the same. If it eventually
still does not work, you will both at least have the merit of saying it did not
work. If you leave it all to her, and have an ‘I don’t care’ approach, you are
not helping but contributing to her blood pressure.
Trying to make a long-distance relationship/ marriage work
This is usually really hard because you cannot legitimately
say no to an 80% job, you take it. On the other hand it takes a toll, to get
over it, you must accept that first. You will face sexual deprivation, company
at the end of the day unless you count Skype and phone calls, trust issues and
just lack of assurances. When you accept that, then you can make it work. If
your women or wife is trying, you should to; if she calls today, make the
effort to call tomorrow. Women feed off assurances, do that for her and she
will be more positive about it.
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