4 marriage tips for the young couple
29 March 2016, 16:35
Are you getting married? Here are 4 tips for a young couple looking to do so.
You will get
comfortable…really, you will stop waking up and thinking someone looks that
amazing when they wake up
It causes panic whenever someone mentions this but it is not
such a bad thing as long as the both of you as a couple don’t let it get out of
hand. You will not be able to stay sexy 24/7. Someone will not even bother with
make up or perfume. That is just what it is. You just need to remember to
balance it because if you do not make that effort once in a while to look sexy
for a spouse, they will eventually forget that you are actually that. Don’t let
it get out of hand but there is nothing wrong with being comfortable. Doing the
basics is okay just don’t forget to put on roll on and stay healthy.
Just because you are
now a wife or a husband does not mean that you lose who you are
If you find a spouse that does this then put the brakes on
that before it gets out of hand especially if they now think you can’t go and
do your own things and have fun without them. They are wrong; marriage makes
you better not obsolete. Maintain your independence that is how you keep
spontaneity in your relationship. But if you are always on someone’s behind and
at their beck and call, you are both setting yourself up. It will reach a point
you will crave it and at this point is when you see old married people acting
crazy and doing things that don’t make sense.
disagreement don’t mean the end
Two people, living and breathing the same air… it is going
to get out of hand. How you approach it is normally the issue. Don’t sweep it
under the rag just so you can maintain the honey moon period. Avoidance has
never helped because it builds up and giving in to someone never wins you any
points eventually. Sit down and solve your issues from the go. Speak your mind
so that someone understands you; there will not be any confusion or blurred
lines. But it never means the end or you do not have to run around calling
intervention groups. Keep your marriage tight and you will never have bigger
problems later-more people always means more problems.
Space is allowed
Refer to the second paragraph. When a spouse asks for time
out, that is not a bad thing. You don’t lose you because you now have someone
else in your life. Couples need to understand that, so that when a partner
wants to take a step back, you don’t see it as a problem. But now, you don’t do
it every time there is an argument you say you need
space. That is not nice.
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