4 male mysteries women should know
20 January 2016, 19:01
Nairobi - There are things women always want to know about men.
That if a man wants to
be serious with you; he will not rush into sex?
Had to start with this one because it is always the
trickiest and everyone has their own opinion of it. Let me explain; a man who
wants you will definitely like to have sex with you. Will he try to rush in on
the first date? No because he is trying to put his best foot forward which is
seem respectful. If you invite him in, will he accept? Probably, not to offend
you but will he try to fast forward? No! What about if that is what you want?
He will; he is only human at the end of the day!
At times, if you want a man to take you seriously, it only
lies with you as the woman and knowing what the right cues are. If the date was
really good and both of you do not want it to end; he invites you to his place.
Chances are you will end up in a compromised situation but how you behave
afterwards is what will determine where the both of you stand. Always put on
your big girl panties while datig; men don’t bite-or they do if he is into that
sort of thing!
That if a man likes
picking the tab he is not into the feminist movement or feminists?
Chivalry is not dead but it is just a matter of what and how
you choose to look at things when it comes to dealing with the man in your
life. The man in your life is not a representation of every other man you have
come across. He is a man by his own rights. Treat him and communicate with him
accordingly. Most men pick the tab because they have been brought up to be
providers. Others want to Dutch because they come from an entirely different
culture. Another one will sit back when it comes; that one you should leave in
the bin! Just talk to your man, don’t beat around the bush but always remember
he is one man not a representation of everybody else.
He will judge you from
what happens between the sheets
Always date a gentleman and you will never have to worry
about this one that is all I can tell you. Gentlemen can be bad boys too. But
if you are into jerks and chauvinists then there is your answer.
Yes it does. No matter how many ways you want to ignore it;
one of you will have to change or one of you will have to make allowances. Then
if you have kids; definitely a problem; religion matters. When you choose to be
with someone not from yours; you prepare yourself to be the one that makes
allowances. Tribe? Not so much if you discount not listening to your people.
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