4 male habits women hate
10 December 2015, 15:01
Nairobi - Women to be fair, try their best to forget some habits, but not all.
Cancelling plans and re-arranging at your convenience
Happens when a man thinks or knows you have no social life
outside of work and seeing him. When he is not feeling up to going out when he
is the one that set it up; so he cancels for a later date. You have already
planned the evening or day in your head, picked an outfit and even used some
money you were not meant to on your hair. The guy calls and says he can’t make
it, ‘can he reschedule?’ Since you do not want to be the brat in this
situation, you agree until you notice that it has become a routine with him. He
gets room once; he takes advantage of that one time and does it through the
No plan just spontaneity; to his way of thinking
Unplanned dates? Perfect; especially when you two have
settled into a mundane routine in the relationship. Or you have kids around and
need to escape. Surprise date is also okay.
What is not nice is while you are still getting to know
someone, and all the dates you have been to with them had no plans made
whatsoever. You go to a restaurant and have to wait in line because no
reservations were ever made. He never
calls in advance and picks out a time but just shows up; you were cooking or
cleaning with stocking on your head and chipped nails and he is asking you to
go out. You might have wanted to but the mood is ruined every time you look
down at your chipped nails and feel unkempt.
Hanging out with the boys is not a date
She might be glad that you have at least introduced her to
your mates but weekly excursions with them is not a date to her. You are
thinking, ‘I am taking her out!’ but when it is with six other men around, that
is not a date even though you like it better with their company around.
A date is not at your kibanda or local
By all means, show her that side of your world, we do not
mind a little bit of spice and different. Once in a while at your joint can be
fun but that is once in a while. I hope you do not count all those times at the
kibanda and local as a date and make it a point to go there with her every day
of the week and count it as spoiling her.
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