4 lies women always fall for
14 April 2016, 16:56
Nairobi - It is very unhealthy to snoop on anyone. It is exhausting,
time-consuming, you will get angry because they will eventually dodge you and
you end up looking stupid. But you meet this person, and when you try to add
two and two it ends up giving you eleven.
The only time I encourage snooping is when you want to tie
yourself to someone but they are not being open and honest with you. They act
like they have not heard what you have said, give you a blank look, brush you
off or make your inquisition look childlike. Whenever someone you are trying to
be in a relationship with acts this way, you better be on high alert and don’t
fold hands like a stupid person because you are trying to give them the benefit
of the doubt. That is how women end up with other people’s men, relationships
that never did exist or having lived and wasted a lot of your time with someone
who lied to you the whole time.
I am not a righteous person, and I do not act like I have
never done some things but I will tell you; every time I felt the need to snoop
it is because my intuition sparked and I knew something was off. It saves me a
lot. It has saved me from time wasting, from having emotions for the wrong
people and I am very healthy and not angry because I at least got where I
needed to be afterward.
Most women get really bitter and resentful when they find
out that this whole time they were being played for a fool and the man has
wasted her prime years because she did not want to be insecure. At times it is
not insecurity but you listening to your gut.
If you are dating the
man that is telling you he and his wife are coming to a close on their divorce;
First of all, I do not advocate dating people who are these
complicated. Let someone deal with their issues, finish, then come look for
you. But someone who is already starting your relationship with such excuses,
they will disappoint you. That is not how it works though; women just find
themselves with some clowns. Check the facts and if she ever crosses your path
and questions you, do not be offended, ask her as well. Some men are not
honest. If a woman still believes they have a relationship; let them be. Find
another man; there are many. Just find someone else.
He only wants to meet at
He does not take you out in public but he calls you to spend
time. That is not effort in terms of putting in time that one might be in a
long distance relationship. You might also meet his friends, listen to them
talk and watch the glances they give you, that tells you, you are either the
main or the other one, or the one he uses for some purposes. It is that
simple. Someone who does not want to
take you out might be worried about coming across the wrong people like his
wife’s/ girlfriend’s sister, relative, friend or brother.
Someone that gets
easily offended when you ask very personal questions
If someone is telling you that they want to be close to you,
and have a relationship; then what type of questions are you not allowed to
ask? Obviously, there are those you wait to ask after a couple of dates but
someone that just wants to talk about latest place to go and where you also ate
but not what he does; that one might be a thug. Or hiding a family.
The one that has
children but ‘they are not together anymore’
The worst lie I have ever heard, ‘We just live together for
the sake of the children to help with the co-parenting but we have no personal
relationship.’ That is a lie. It was not told to me but the number of women
that fall for it.
This is why you come across the wife; she wants to beat you,
not because you are with her man but mostly because who falls for that one?
Really? A live-in baby mother also applies. Just be with a man that is on his own, don’t fall for
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