4 excuses women use to avoid dating
06 November 2015, 14:31
Nairobi - Are you still single after a year of being single? When you
feel like having sex, is it your exes that you call? Are you still having sex
with your ex? Are you looking at your friend as the next relationship material
because there are no good people? It might just be because you are full of
bullshit and you are bullshitting yourself by going back or holding onto things
that are just not for you.
I cannot just do this alone
You have no idea how people are afraid of going out on their
own. They make excuses on the number of things that could actually go wrong
rather than right. What if the club closes early tonight; what if it is closed?
What if no one comes to talk to me, now I have no one to talk to and now I look
People like having a back up in the look of friends. If
things do not go right at least they have company at the bar rather than look
lonely at the bar.
I am too busy
I have so much to do and have no time to just go out and
start pointless conversation with people. I have no time to start courting
afresh. I am too busy to look for new people.
I would rather the devil I know than the angel I do not
I have seen enough devils for this particular excuse not to
even work for me. If I let something go it is because I know I am never going
back to it. I already know if it did not work the first time, it is definitely
not going to work the second time. People swear by change;’ oh, they have said
they are better, they have said they are willing to work with me’. I swear by
the boomerang effect. Do you remember that cartoon where the character would
throw the boomerang and the fellow character on its side would have a grin on its face thinking of how fun
it was about to be until it got hit in the back of its head? Now you get my
point. It is called the boomerang!
Why should I work this hard in something that should come
People apply easy and lazy in relationships because it is
the one place where you do not get grades neither do you have to have any
performance appraisals. If it is not working, I would rather just stick around
rather than go out and start afresh.
But my family already knows them
I do not like bringing new people around them. Then maybe
for a change, why don’t you wait and see if someone is actually for you before
you bring them around important people.
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