4 dangers of stealing someone else's man
18 January 2016, 11:51
Nairobi - Are you with someone else's man? Are you planning to have him? Here are dangers of it.
If he doing it with you, he will do it to you
See, this is the foremost rule that you should always keep
in mind while you dally with another woman’s man. See, the problem with most
women is they go around thinking that they are God’s gift to humankind’s
problems but you really aren’t. You can be one in a million but there are still
the other 999,999 others out there. Let
me explain it in personal terms; I know I am beautiful, smart and intelligent
but I also know that it is not every man that will want me. Call it personal
preferences; fix that in your head and you will live life so much more freely
and simpler. There are those odds that we always talk about, Angelina Jolie
stealing Brad Pitt and Alicia Keys stealing Swizz Beats but you are not
Angelina neither are you Alicia. You have to be bringing something really
special to the table that will make that man stick because what he is doing
with you, he will do with the next one.
Let me give you a perfect Kenyan example. We all know one of
our illustrious honorobles, Mr. Mungatana who was married before he met
Cecilia. After a whirlwind romance of
cat and mouse they finally tied the knot and came into the light but how long
did that take? Mr. Honorable was again up to some Tomfoolery with a certain
Mwanaisha (I think there is something about those legs that work for him on
both accounts). Anyway, I hope you are now getting the point as a woman. You
might be now but you might also not be the last. What he is putting her
through, he will also put you through.
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Your position will open up that will need another person to
If you do manage to convince this man to permanence, there
is the chance that we now do have a vacancy; sort of like a job opening. Just
look at the mentioned exampled above and you will understand what I mean. While
you settle into some permanence role and the man likes temporary fun; he is
taking applications for the role you just vacated. If you were the mistress, he
will need a replacement because you are now a wife.
The way he talks about her, so will he about you
If a man is able to sit down and talk badly about his wife
and the way she makes him miserable. The way after a couple of years of
marriage she did not turn out to be what he needed; he is doing the same with
you. If you two are meeting up for whatever, judge his character by whether he
chooses to talk about his wife or shuts down any topic that involves her. If he
shuts it down, he respects her and she will always come before you no matter
what you choose to believe. If he talks about her, then he talking about you to
The way he treats her, he will treat you
I think the previous paragraph will explain this one.
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