3 ways women ruin relationships
06 April 2016, 21:05
Nairobi - Can women ruin relationships? Yes. Do women ruin relationships? Yes.
Taking out your issues
It is nice having someone to talk to but carrying your
baggage and off-loading it on someone is quite not the way. Someone gets
worried every time you go out every morning what it is you will come with in
the evening that they will have to deal with. That is why for most marriages
and relationships someone chooses to stay in traffic or be late at work so that
they find you already asleep. It just gets tiresome.
Blaming him for
everything that goes wrong with the two of you
One-sided blame does not just happen where the lady is
always taking the blame but it happens to men too. Relationships are a two way
street so someone should be comfortable enough to be able to point out when you
stepped out of line. Not one person alone is always taking the blame for things
they never even had a part in.
Not saying what wrong
or preferring to talk to other people
Just because it is touted that men do not open up
emotionally, does not mean you have to buy into it and not say when there is a
problem. When someone asks what is wrong, in order for you to solve it really
quickly, you just open up. At times someone picks up on something completely
different misinterpreting the real issues. That is why talking is always
important. Talking to other people also doesn’t help. At times people deliver
news to their level of understanding and not yours causing more problems.
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