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3 ways to win her back

17 February 2016, 18:12 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - You have made a mistake. How do you win her back?

Putting your ego aside and accepting your mistake

I like it when a man apologizes but what he says is, I will do better but it is hard for him to say, you were right, I was wrong and I hurt you. But only, I will do better or never do it again. Most of the time he will not even mention what the ‘it’ was because it is a confirmation of his mess or mistake. A woman will get touchy when you are always making her apologize or grovel for the little mistake but when you do it big time; you do not want to do the same for her.

If you don’t want to do a public apology, then don’t call in the elders. What you need to do is put your ego aside when apologizing; it will be easier for her to accept.

You need to show that you have made an effort

You need to show her that you made a plan and you actually thought about it. Buying flowers, presenting them and saying the apology will make her feel like you really did not even have that much to deal with as compared to her hurt. That is why the apology rarely comes out of her easily or even afterwards you feel like she bares a grudge against you. You just never put in much thought into it and you made it look easy for you as compared to how hard it will be for her to get over whatever you did. Have a plan, make it elaborate and she will appreciate the apology more. Remember what she likes and incorporate it.

Show you are ready to commit to your promises

Trust is usually lost when the first time, you promised you will never do it again but then she keeps handling the same issue. Next time when it is a completely different mess you are in; don’t think she will be willing to listen because she already knows of all your broken promises. But when you mess up and stick to what you promised you would do, the next you do something else; she will be more willing to forgive.

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