3 ways to spice your relationship
17 December 2015, 18:55
Nairobi - Routine is what kills most marriages because what comes
after that is when people do not actually care. You are just with a person
because you are just with them and because they are available. On the other
hand you start to realize that you can’t have spent that amount of time with
someone only for you to give up on the whole thing or them and that is why
people try. Not because the other person is their only option but because they
have built so much with them that it is worth the try.
things that first made you two a couple
Like I said, routine can ruin things but when you forget the
things that brought you together; hobbies, having fun at the other partner’s
events or what made you two have a good time together, you lose. Not because
they forgot about them but because they are doing it with other people. People
never forget the things they are passionate about they just look for other
people to do it with.
Respect in a relationship
is very important
Not just from one party to the other but for both parties to
respect the other’s part. When one thinks they do more than the other does,
respect is lost. When one thinks the other partner could do more, respect is
lost. When one thinks the other is not doing enough, respect is lost. That
starts the downward spiral for the relationship because they go looking for it
elsewhere and you go looking for it elsewhere.
If you are still in
something then you have to wipe the plate clean
If you are still there, that is because you are still trying
to make it work. Thusly, you will let go of the things or thing that keep
bringing you to point zero. Not just for them, but for you otherwise you are
better off letting the whole relationship go.
In another case, if it is something that they keep doing
then it is your fault and not theirs because it is something that you have
chosen to commit to.
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