3 ways to ruin your sex life
26 August 2015, 15:35
How easy is it to ruin your sex life?
No effort at all
It is okay to wake up at times and not want to do anything.
Just sleep, watch whatever or read whatever eat and stay in bed the whole day.
Then you remember you like the good things in life. You wake up, go to work and
get paid. That is sort of how it works with sex too. You do not want to put
that much into it but lazy around, but you remember you like having good sex.
So you make an effort towards that. For the most part; for some of us that is.
No effort is: not caring what your partner likes, not
knowing what you like, doing the same things all night every night and
repeating 365….no scratch that, 40-60 times a year in the same bed and in the
Pleasing everyone simultaneously
Did you ever wonder why married people are said to have the
more sex than single people and it is probably better too. It is because they
are with that one partner; hopefully if they are both faithful. They know each
other’s tastes. They have already had the arguments on how the other person
always messes things up. They have seen each other’s ugly mole in the worst
Now, you on the other hand have either a couple of friend’s
with benefits. Always have a couple of one night stands. Or you just have a
string of attachments. Now you not only can’t enjoy it because you are worried
about health factors, you can never be comfortable with a new body every damn
time. You have to marry where their mouth has been and if you want your mouth
anywhere around them e.t.c.
You are just not free enough with your partner to have good
No one can give you better sex advice than yourself. Let me
explain. Therapy is good or aunt someone. Cosmopolitan, not so much but no one
will know your body better than you and how well to please it. If you are
trying to remember what some book said while at it, you have already failed. At
times it is just better to go with the flow like those exams you had not read
for but still got a mark for knowing your name. You were just so damn happy
after that exam because that was the most stupid thing you had ever done.
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