3 ways to keep her sexually interested
09 December 2014, 19:39
Nairobi - Sexual tension is always good, and when it lasts in a
relationship, that is a plus for most. But then that is why most people are
usually apprehensive to have sex with each other because chances are that maybe
that is the only spark the relationship has. And maybe they just do not want to
burst that bubble yet. Then again, there is having sexual tension and not
knowing how to proceed form there without being seen as either a pervert, a
sex-freak or maybe just going too fast.
So how do you get the girl of your very wicked intentions
attracted to you and want to have sex with you?
As much as we women like being responsible, that does not
mean we want a man that is dull and his conversation is like pulling a stick
out of mud. We like something new and sensational and if you do not represent
that then maybe that is why you are part of the crowd looking in. The woman who
is the object of your lustful intentions should feel like when she is with you
she would rather be nowhere else. But if she is with you and she is checking
her phone or receiving calls, then you do have a long way to go.
Exciting is not arousing
You may be exciting but may not be inspiring any sexual
fantasies in her. She just wants to hang out and have fun then go at home and
think about another man of her dreams because you are not it.
By now you obviously
have shown her you have more than a casual interest in her I hope. If you are
still in the friend zone then you have to figure your way out of there first.
And in arousing her, you have to find the right way to do it
first. No groping or leering looks. There is groping and sensual touching.
Sensual touching makes her aware of you but not in a disgusting way. It is
about creating awareness without seeming too over eager.
Men like shortcuts and that is why for most they end up
losing out because you seemed to be interested in only one thing. Women like to
be treated like queens, so take her out on a number of dates but do not jump
the gun. The prize is always worth the wait. You would rather she come to you
rather than end up running away from you. When a woman sees you paying
attention to her and not behave like the other frogs that have jumped her way,
then you are a few notches higher than the rest of them. That will make you
stand out for her. Yopu will be able to turn the tables on her and make her the
one who is willing.
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