3 ways to cement your relationship
28 December 2015, 16:59
Nairobi - Your relationship needs a boost. How do you manage it?
The old age question in most relationship is how to make
someone stay in love or at least in like with you. You don’t want to stick
around in something that has lost its spice so that is what you want. The problem is that most people in
relationships do not know how to deal with their emotions and as time passes,
most people become worse than better, hence loosing that connection. The person
you are with chooses not to open up because it is much easier than dealing with
your outbursts. The person you are with chooses to tell a white lie because
they know when they tell you the truth, you through a tantrum, become resentful
or silent treatment follows.
Things just don’t happen but remember for every action there
is a reaction so if you want your partner to keep coming back to you, try to
hold yourself at bay, sift your thoughts then give an action. That is how you
get positive reaction in your relationship-better connection!
Don’t be so rigid
There are just some people who don’t budge. I am not saying
compromise yourself but when you are getting more of the pros rather than the
cons then you can bend a little on the small faults that someone is finding
hard to beat. You keep pressing someone about the small things, they start to
ignore you or have a deaf ear and soon enough it is not just the small things
but the big things. Soon enough they are not paying attention when you are
trying to solve a bigger problem or really need their ideas.
Get yourselves more
excited about some things
The couple that plays together stays together. Not pray but
play but prayer is also good. I gets to a point that mundane boring routine
will make you fall into a place where you no longer are excited to see your
partner. You need to rectify that because once you go down that road one of you
is going to mess up and it is because they will look for that excitement
elsewhere. It always starts innocent until one person is having a late night
drink to end the day then go back home and then they just do not get home.
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