3 vital signs of a strong relationship
15 September 2015, 18:43
Nairobi - If your relationship is not going through these stages then there is a problem. Or is there?
Getting to know each other
If you have been seeing someone and by now you still do not
know them then what do you two talk about and do. You are not in a relationship
if you do not really know the other person and they are not willing to open up
to you. If you are important to them they will be willing to let you in to
their personal life.
Are you moving forward or still in the same spot
Routine is tedious. Routine is good when you need to keep up
appointments but bad when you are in a relationship. When you have been with
someone for a good while you will be able to tell if it is going somewhere or
if it is just another dead end. If you have put in a lot of work it is harder
to let go because you were banking on getting something out of it. If you are
not moving forward with someone then maybe it is time you let that one go and
look for other pastures to water. Pouring water into a desert is a very
You are comfortable?
It is okay to get to a place where you do not need to
impress the other person. You can just be with them, be silent and not have to
talk or worry about what they are thinking about. You are just being normal.
Normal in a relationship is good because it says that the two of you have grown
into each other and do not need to go out of your way to keep the other person
around or hold onto them. You are comfortable and that is a sign of a good
relationship. Not comfortable in a lax way though.
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