3 types of people to avoid in relationships
25 August 2015, 18:29
When you meet them, you quickly know you should run.
You don’t have to make someone else a part of it
Always bitter after a
Maybe it is one relationship, two relationships or all your
relationships. Instead of doing what a normal person does and moving on; you
decide to carry it around with you and become this ticking time bomb that
someone has to deal with. You need to learn how to move on from bad experiences
so that when a good experience is right before you can see it and not doubt it
for what it is.
You are the victim.
Why can’t they see that?
There is enough blame to go around for everyone but you
cannot share in it. You are always right. You have always done the correct
thing by everyone. Your mother is against you. Your father is against you. Your
boyfriend or girlfriend is against you and they are siding with them and not
supporting you. The government is against you. Even the sun seems to shine
harder on your forehead and not everybody else’s.
Maybe yes, all the above is true and none of these people
have ever done right by you. But you also need to learn to move on and let go
of some things so that they can handle themselves. If you learn to do that, you
will get a partner who will eventually be on your side.
Never having dealt
with your past issues
They constantly crop up and the worst part is, you choose to
make your partner a part of it by blaming them. The worst part is when you
cannot take a hard look at yourself and see where you keep going wrong. So you
jump ne ship to the next creating havoc every place you have ever been. Always
carrying the same problems with you.
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