3 topics you should avoid talking about while dating
10 March 2016, 15:12
There is nothing quite lively as a woman in love or in a comfortable relationship.
She is confident and that is marvelous except when her conversation continually centers on these certain topics that make the average guy groan inwardly while trying to fake a 'happy face’.
1. The little effort he puts into the relationship against yours
Considering yourself the bastion of your relationship is very far from being romantic and constantly highlighting all the sacrifices you make is a killer. Sacrifices are a choice, if he is not doing enough, ask him nicely to do specific things instead of generalizing his flaws.
I know you secretly love the sacrifices you have to make and all you want is a great kiss and tons of gratitude, but constantly reminding him sends the message that he is failing at his job!
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2. Comparing him to other men because you want to make him a better person
So many women do this and we know you don't mean any harm. Telling him about how a certain man you know gives his woman more money or howe romantic and high-end achiever the other guy is will not make him become like them. Instead, it makes him to start feeling like he is not good enough for you and thus send him packing.
3. How you are still hot because you got serenaded by a guy on your way out of town
Ordinarily, this shouldn't provoke a man but some women capitalize on the fact that they are still desirable to every warm- blooded male within a 2-mile radius and rub it in their bae's face. We forget that he wouldn't be with you if he didn't consider you totally awesome. Reminding him constantly about how high your market value is will make him to cheat more if he is already cheating!
So the next time you are cuddled up in bed and having the greatest conversation of your life with him, make a conscious effort to leave out these topics and watch your chat.
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