3 tips to get Mr. Right
09 May 2016, 12:36
Are you single and do you want to settle down? Are you looking for Mr. Right?
We all do want to have a great wedding and a romantic happily ever after as much as we choose to deny it. Women’s liberation hasn't fully cured us of the yearning to be part of a couple but getting a good man who is ready to settle down seems like a task so here are 3 basic tips to help you bag the man of your dreams a tad faster!
Have you tried everything?
Don't be rigid. If you haven't tried Facebook, Twitter, snapchat, Instagram, whatsapp, speed dating, hookups, matchmaking, college reunions, singles hangout, church singles programs etc. then you can't honestly say there are no men out there! It's not enough to frequent bars, parties and weddings, too many chicks there and more guys looking to bang than betroth. Don't look at the prowling as a desperate move, look at it as a fun way to meet new people, get past your boring routine and actually have adventures and to see and be seen.
You can meet him anywhere
Anywhere! The market, the gym, the office, church, at home, a party, you name it. Any place that admits men folk is a potential meeting ground so look and act your best at all times, you don't get off days unless you are home alone. You just may not get a second opportunity to catch his fancy!
So many people have met the men of their dreams in the most unconventional of ways, it's time you reconsidered those rules you made up in high school!
Age is everything
Most men want to settle down and have a family eventually! The problem with all the women in their lives is that everyone wants to make him settle before his time is up and he isn't having any of that. No matter how involved he is in a relationship, if he is not ready to settle down then he most likely won't so the trick is to catch him at the tail end of his time. That means setting your sights on an older gentleman. A man in his late 30- almost forty is going to be under a lot of pressure from his mother, family, work colleagues etc. to settle down and is seriously considering it mostly because most of his friends are married and he is starting to feel like he is missing out on something great. Those are the kind of men who although careful and critical, do not date for long before popping the question! Find a man in this age bracket! Forget the younger men who only want fun!
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