3 things never to fight about in a relationship
02 November 2015, 14:54
Nairobi - Three things never to fight about in a relationship.
Money is a big issue in relationships because money is a big
issue. If you are just dating someone, you should not be telling them how to
spend their money. If you are in a relationship, you still cannot tell someone
how they should spend their money. You can advice and even when advising, it is
only when you two are serious about each other; otherwise you might end up
giving someone a wrong impression.
The only people who can bring up money to their partner are
married people and people who have kids together. They can consult but when you keep trying to
control your partners bank balance, you will always have a fight.
The relatives and family
This is because both of you should have come to an agreement
before you decided to ne permanent together. The problem is that they wait for
something to happen to solve it until the next issue. You remove focus from
your family because you are constantly bickering about relatives who keep
disrupting. Agree when people can stay, how long and expenditure. It is very
uncomfortable when you are in a single room and a relative comes to stay and
you are wondering where and you cannot tell them you have no room because they
just choose to act like they cannot see.
You cannot start having a problem with your partner’s
career. Unless you were hoping for their career to stagnate, longer work hours
and conflicting schedule are to be inevitable. You have to choose to understand
rather than give them a hard time about it every time. Unless you want them t
never move up the ladder or improve-that is always the set up.
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