3 things men take for granted with women
22 December 2015, 19:03
Nairobi - Not all women are so bad it is just a matter of choice of
the type of woman you choose to deal with. Also fact; never expect the woman
you have just met to deeply understand you and your emotions. You are showing
too much too soon without verifying if she is worth it for you. Most women tuck
tail and run because of the first impressions given off by the supposed man.
She needs you to be strong, I am not saying she is expecting it all the time
but a breakdown before you have a stable relationship will seriously freak her
out. The only women that should see your breakdown are the ones that have been
committed to you and been with you for a severely long while; she has seen you
in every state.
We want you to be able
to handle your business but we understand when you get overwhelmed
We definitely do not think that men are robots; just because
we get overwhelmed with ours doesn’t make us lesser women. In the same light,
we do not think it makes you any less of a man when you just feel like you want
to quit. Wanting to and giving in are two totally different things. A man who
admits to the first but doesn’t do the latter gains respect always and not
scorn. Frustration is normal.
Failing, failing and
failing that just means that at least you keep trying
It does not mean that she sees you as a failure so you end
up not talking about another road block that just popped up because you are
afraid she will judge you. Failing and giving up is definitely a bad thing that
will earn you what you are trying to avoid. Talking to her and letting her know
is what women mean by you open up not hiding the important stuff. Because that
ends up with a piling mess that she might not forgive you for. A woman who
truly respects and loves you will know when and how to take over without making
you feel like an embarrassment or showing it to the world. That is what is
called the spouse blanket. On the other hand, choose the wrong woman, have the
wrong type of relationship and you already know what you are getting.
Hiding your mistake
We will definitely find out. Men are not so good at telling
fibs. Shutting down is all the answer she needs when you are hiding something
from her. Your intentions might be great but women feel betrayed when you do
not open up on important stuff.
Please do not ask her for the above treatment if you treat
her like a dish rag, do not respect her as your woman and you are on some
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