3 things men find attractive in women
19 August 2015, 18:33
Nairobi - What do men find attractive in women? Here are three pointers.
A woman who will let him have his freedom
Long ago it was attractive to have a woman who would wait on him hand and foot. Giving him all her attention and time and checking up on him every day. But I guess it was also because there were no clubs to go to-so home was the only option if they were not hunting in the forest and there were no televisions, so good company was either his woman or his hunting crew.
These days’ things have changes and so have we also evolved. We have grown up in a society where people are more out than in and with that, the norms have also been destroyed. Jobs are no longer 9-5 and playtime is no longer reserved for the weekend. A man cannot be with you 24/7 and his free time will not always be with you. A healthy relationship is when you start to understand that and you also get that as well. That is what people mean when they tell you about being spicy and spontaneous. You cannot know everything and that is what talking about each other’s day and setting up dates makes it interesting. Allow a man to have and maintain his own interests outside you. It is allowed to miss each other.
She controls her own love and sex life
There is nothing sexier to a man than a woman who he knows she does not need him but wants him. Ne-yo’s words transcribed.
She wants to be with him but not out of need. She does not allow any room for confusion because she sets out her expectations from the get go. Is it love she wants? Is it a relationship she wants? Is it a fling she wants? Or is it a no strings thing she wants. She lets him know, not because she is trying to strong arm him into anything but because she is trying to avoid the confusion that comes with hoping for something. You were hoping to change his mind. With sex. Showing how much of a good wife-material you are. Showing how you are not needy.
A woman who is in control of her love life avoids making bad relationship decisions and that is what is attractive because both parties know what they are getting into.
Her happiness is hers and not from the relationships she is in.
A woman who will not be crazy because you are no longer interested. She will take it in stride and move on. A woman whom when you are not available to take somewhere will take herself, have a good time and come and tell you about it. Not from a malicious place but so you will make time to come next time. A woman who will not sulk because you need space from time to time away from her. She will not taje that personally and think it is her but just because you are not each other’s shoelace.
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