3 things ladies get wrong with their men
23 September 2015, 17:31
Nairobi - Ladies are at times wrong when it comes to their men. Most. These are 3 common mistakes made.
You are betraying your partner
Be honest, when you are relating a problem within your
relationship or marriage, it is not you outlining the better qualities that
your partner has but quite the opposite. In your anger you are throwing stones
at your partner which you come to regret later. Truth is, it is already out
there. So no matter how much you say you take it back, you cannot take back the
fact that you have just blackened them to these people who do not really matter
when it comes to your relationship. Do not betray your partner’s trust on
smaller issues when you can solve them just the two of you. If it is the bigger
issues, you would rather even o to a therapist or just a completely outside
party that is not related to you in any way.
There’s always going to be sides to be picked
It is always hard to say you were looking for someone who would
be objective and in the end they end up choosing your side because they do not
want to annoy you or make you angry at them. Every person who tells other
people their issues does not want to come out looking as the evil twin. Your
words are saying one thing but your demeanor is saying something else. In the
end, you now have three or more people siding with you and aggravating your
partner in the process because they are not being heard. That is why issues
taken to outside parties without the other partner’s consent are rarely
Marriage/ Relationships thrive when there is unity between
both parties, you have just destroyed it
It may not be a fairy tale situation but try and at least
try to keep a small issue small. Everyone likes drama and when you blow things
out of proportion, they jump on it to make it even bigger. When you want to
solve something, act like it and present the facts like it. If you are aiming
to destroy it them by all means, make the other person look like they are
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