3 things a man should never tell a woman
23 March 2016, 22:47
Nairobi - Just like women have their own way of showing love, so do
men have their own way of doing so. On the other hand, the men that some women
choose to listen to are rarely if ever the right ones. Sometime you are with
someone and you are thinking they are the one when in fact they could
definitely not be the one. He tells you to do something and you do it. The
following is not applied to the crooks in relationships alone but husbands and
legit boyfriends as well. Husbands and boyfriends can also have bad advice. The
worst part is, when it takes a turn for the worse, and that is when you realize
that your man might just have been disloyal.
When to have a baby
In marriage, in a relationship or to get commitment from
someone; don’t have a baby unless you know you are ready for the child. Have
the baby when you know you can take care of the child yourself. Having a
partner is nice and a bonus but you should have the mentality that you can sort
the baby out yourself when the need will arise-clinical bills, daily needs,
school and what not.
If your partner steps up to the plate, then you are lucky
but if it takes a turn for the worse, you do not have regrets or suffer
disappointment because it is something that you actually wanted.
Any family planning
Anything you do should be something you are comfortable
with. It cannot be talked about enough on how many women have had their tubes
tied listening to a man who ended up not being the one. You had kids with him
but because he did not want to have more with you, you listen because you
think; you are in the same boat. Now you want your own man and your new man
wants kids-his kids.
I want to include abortion because it is a sensitive issue
that people like to act like it does not happen. If it is something that you do
not want, do not do it. Most end up in detrimental cases like death or it is
done badly and damages your womb. You now can no longer have more kids; he will
just go and get some other lady when he is finally ready to have a family but
what will you now do? Are you ready to explain to any man what you did that has
made you incapable of having kids?
Work and your career
Marrying someone does not mean that you cease to exist. As
much as a man wants a woman to wait on him hand and foot; most men are proud of
their women who go out there and have their own accomplishments. He respects
that. Do battle with him and he will just learn to respect you eventually when
you are making your own headways. Listen to his whims and my dear you will be
the one trying to figure out why he does not want to talk about bread or does
not think you have sufficient knowledge to discuss politics.
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