3 signs your man is loyal
03 March 2016, 18:25
Nairobi - No two words confuse people in relationships or without more
than loyalty and potential. I don’t blame you though especially if you got in
there for all the wrong reasons.
This won’t even take long because it is not that
When another person is doing better, you do not leave your spouse to be
with them; that is loyalty
Ambition clouds judgment. In relationships, it kills the
relationship. You have been with this person for this long. They keep trying
and trying and trying but it is not working out. You love them but wait; they
said we cannot eat love. You see the friend and wonder what is it that they are
doing better that your spouse cannot do. Why do they keep on failing? You feel
a bit of resentment as you sneer. You do not approach the friend for the
benefit of your partner-to find out the secret. But you are planning how you
are going to move yourself a step further and be with the one that knows what
they are doing.
Loyalty is when you support the one that you are with
because you see them trying and that is what you chose. Not leaving to be with
the one that is doing better at the moment.
Loyalty makes you stick around in the toughest times
I know you have a good heart-maybe! This is my litmus test for
any couple married, trying to get married or thinking of permanence. Look at
them and ask yourself, if there was any disability down the road, were not able
to do some things or they could not give you what you expected of them; what
would you do?
Now you know if you are loyal or not. Situations never last.
Something bad can even happy the next day after the wedding-what would you do?
Loyalty makes you accept what you have no matter how bad the situation
Have you ever noticed how the minute you get into a
relationship is when the devils steps up to tell you how they had feelings or
how they have always wanted you. So where were you all this time?
Or it will come in a better package and better treatment
with better luxuries on offer. You either accept what you have with whoever you
are with now. You will work for the better together; otherwise you will be very
dissatisfied with the relationship.
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