3 signs you should marry him
05 May 2016, 20:03
Nairobi - Should you marry him? Here are signs you can and should.
It shows he respects
A man who does not ask your opinion thinks less of you.
Someone saying they are the head of the family does not mean that they sit on
your head; they lead you, not dictate to you and that is what most men nowadays
get confused about. Date someone who will ask you where you would like to go
even if ¾ of the time you do not know. That patience he shows is what you are
looking for in a partner. Not the one that tells you, ‘why are you mad? If I
even asked you, you would not have given me an answer anyway.
You will never be
surprised when you find out about some things
There is good surprise and then there is ‘debt’ surprise. A
lot of wives when you ask them something in finances they will tell you, I do
not know he takes care of those things.’ So she is okay because ‘he takes care
of those things’. She does not follow up or investigate. Thing is, some of
these wives married crooks so when he drops a bombshell like; ‘We are broke.’
They both look like clowns. She was comfortable being ignorant and he was just
doing what he was doing.
When you are part of a decision, you will be able to see
whether is a good plan or you will need a fall back plan. Not being unaware and
A man who asks your
opinion will never belittle it
If you are dating someone whom when you speak, he ignores or
laughs you off and increases doubt in your mind, maybe you should look in other
quarters for love. This one thinks you are stupid so he is not meant to pay you
any mind. He will eventually ruin your self-esteem and confidence.
Date someone who wants to listen to your ideas and your
dreams and encourages you towards them not telling you to be realistic and stop
being stupid. Even if you are being stupid, at least your confidence is not
taking a beating.
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